Uko abakundanye bamaranye igihe kirekire, ni nako gukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina bikunda kuba ibya buri gihe hagati yabo. Abakobwa rimwe na rimwe bagera aho bakabona ko imibonano mpuzabitsina bagirana n’abo bakundana yatangiye guhinduka yewe ikaba inateye irungu mu kuyikora. Urubuga greatlove dukesha iyi nkuru rwaganiriye n’abakobwa bamaze igihe kinini mu rukundo batangaza ibimenyetso 9 bigaragaza ko umusore yarambiwe kuryamana n’umukobwa mu buriri.

AREBA TELEVIZIYO MU GIHE CY’IMIBONANO MPUZABITSINA: Umukobwa umwe yagize ati “birambabaza iyo urwego rwo kureba televiziyo no gukora imibonano igihe turi kumwe ruba rungana.” Abakobwa benshi bababazwa n’iyo myitwarire y’abasore igihe bibabayeho. INAMA: gerageza kwiyitaho kurusha uwo mukobwa aba areba kuri tv kugira ngo abone ko kuba ari kumwe nawe aribyo bikomeye.

ANYWA ITABI NYUMA Y’IMIBONANO MPUZABITSINA: Umukobwa umwe yagize ati “biba bisa nk’aho kuryamana nanjye ari umutwaro kuburyo akenera kunywa itabi nyuma.’’ Abakobwa benshi bituma batangira guhangayikira ndetse no kumva badatekanye kubera iyi myitwarire y’abasore bakundana muri iki kibazo. INAMA: gerageza gutegura icyayi kuburyo mugihugiraho, bizatuma adahita ajya mu itabi.

KWIHATIRIZA NO GUKORESHA AMAVUTA MBERE YO GUKORA IMIBONANO MPUZABITSINA: Umukobwa umwe yaravuze ati “umuhugu dukundana aba ashaka ko turyamana atabishyizemo imbaraga.” Abakobwa benshi bababazwa n’abasore babanza gukinisha ibikinisho bya (sex) no kubanza gusiga amavuta ku bitsina byabo mbere yo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina. INAMA: ibutaha niba bikubaho akazana ibyo bikoresho, uzabikoreshe mu nyungu zawe nk’amavuta uyamashisha igitsina cye, bizatuma akanguka abone ko ari wowe akeneye kurusha amavuta.

NTAJYA AKUVUGISHA NYUMA Y’IMIBONANO MPUZABITSINA: Umukobwa umwe yagize ati “njye nkunda ko yakanyitayeho nyuma yo kuryamana, rero ibyo birambabaza.” Abakobwa benshi bagaragaza ko barambiwe abagabo baryamana nabo bagamie kwishimisha bo ubwabo. INAMA: ntukamurenganye wenyine, tangira ikiganiro umubwira ibyo ushaka.

NTIYIGORA AGUKURAMO IMYENDA YOSE: Umukobwa umwe yagize ati “nibaza niba aba adashaka kureba umubiri wanjye.” Abakobwa benshi birababangamira cyane iyo abakunzi babo baberetse ko ikibashishikaje gusa ari ukuryamana na bo. INAMA: gerageza kwambara imyenda imukurura kuburyo ituma yifuza kuyigukuramo.

ABANZA KUNYWA INZOGA MBERE Y’IMIBONANO MPUZABITSINA: Umukobwa umwe yagize ati “ntago mba nshaka ko aba yasinze buri gihe turyamanye.” Abasore benshi babanza kunywa inzoga kugira ngo bibashyire muri mood yo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina kandi bibabaza abakunzi ba bo. INAMA: mutembereze ahantu kuburyo bizamurinda kunywa, ibyo bizazana impinduka ku ho musanzwe mubikorera.

N.B: imibonano mpuzabitsina ireba gusa abakundana kandi bagejeje igihe bemerewe kuyikora. Ni ukuvuga abashakanye, gusa hari ubwo bibaho ko abatarashakana baryamana mu buryo bumwe cyangwa ubundi, bityo ugomba kwibuka kwikingira mu buryo bwose kugira ngo bitazakuzanira ingaruka utiteguye kwakira.