Ni ibintu bimaze kumera nk’ibimenyererwa ko abagabo iyo bagiye gutereta bashaka abana b’abakobwa bakiri bato mu myaka, kimwe no gushaka abo baryamana. Ese biterwa n’iki ko buri uko bagiye guhitamo amahitamo yabo abaganisha kwishakira abana bato kurusha abo banganya imyaka? Dore impamvu nyamukuru zitera ibi bintu.

BABA BASHAKA KUYOBORA IGIKORWA

Abagabo benshi banezezwa no gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina aribo bayoboye igikorwa kumva ko barusha uburambe uwo mwana w’umukobwa akumva ari byiza. Ku mukobwa rero iyo bari kumwe akabwira umugabo iri jambo ati” njyewe ntabyo nzi ni ubwa mbere ngiye kubikora, cyangwa se simbimenyereye”. Bituma umugabo yumva arenze.

ABAGABO BAKUNDA UMUKOBWA UFITE ISONI, BABONA ARI BYIZA

Abagabo barabikunda cyane kubona agiye gukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina n’umukobwa ufite udusoni kandi ugaragara nkaho nta kintu azi (innocent), urubuga dukesha iyi nkuru bakaba baranagiriye inama abakobwa ko kwitwararika muri ubwo buryo bishobora gutuma atsindira umutima w’umugabo.

ABAGABO BAVUGA KO ABANA BATO B’ABAKOBWA BAKURURANA (attractive)

Abagabo benshi bavuga ko uruhu rw’abakobwa bato ruba rutandukanye n’urw’abagore bakuze. Ibyo bituma niba umugabo yakubwiye ko ufite umubiri mwiza, worohereye mbese yashimye uruhu rwawe, ibyo bishobora gutuma akwirukaho ashaka ko muryamana.

NGO ABAKOBWA BATO BABA BAFITE IMBARAGA NYINSHI

Abagabo bakunda gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina igihe kinini baba bashaka abana bato b’abakobwa kubera ko aribo baba bagifite imbaraga nyinshi bitandukanye n’abagore cyangwa se abakobwa babikoze cyane bakazimara.

ABAGABO BABA BAFITE UBWOBA BWO KUBAGERERANYA N’ABANDI BAGORE

Iki ni kimwe mu bintu bikuru bituma abagabo bakunda kuryamana n’abana b’abakobwa bato, kubera ko baba babona ko ubwo uwo mwana w’umukobwa nta burambe afite muri ibyo bintu, atazagira uwo amugereranya nawe kuko wenda azaba ariwe abikoranye nawe bwa mbere. Buriya bene uyu mugabo niyo ushatse kumubabaza umubwira ukuntu umu Ex wawe yari arenze.

BABAKUNDIRA KO UTWENDA TUMWE NA TUMWE TUBABERA CYANE

Abagabo benshi bakunda no gukururwa n’imyenda y’ishuri abana b’abakobwa baba bambaye, ibyo bigatuma bababonamo isura nziza ibakurura ku kuryamana nabo.

ABAGABO BABONA ARI BYIZA KUBONA UMWANA W’UMUKOBWA ARI KWITWARA BIDASANZWE

Abagabo benshi barabikunda cyane kubona umukobwa ameze nk’uwashobewe kubera ko nta burambe afite mubyo bagiye gukora. Ibyo bituma yifuza kumufatiraho igihe amwigisha uburyo bwe bwo kubikoramo maze akamwiyegurira.

Akenshi tumenyereye kumva ko abagabo benshi baba bashaka kuryamana n’abana bato b’abakobwa kubera ko bab bafite irari, ariko mu byukuri izi mpamvu nizo mpamvu zituma babashaka cyane, ariko akenshi usanga ahubwo ari ikibazo cy’ubwonko bwabo baba bishyizemo ibyo bintu kubivana mu mutwe bikabagora nk’uko love dukesha iyi nkuru yabitangaje.

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