Ushobora kumva ko ubayeho ubuzima bwiza n’umuntu mukundanye, ariko abantu bari hafi yanyu bafite ubundi buryo bashobora kubibonamo ndetse ibyo ni ibintu bisanzwe. Abantu bashobora no kubita “I couple itazaramba”. Urubuga dukesha iyi nkuru rwakusanyije ibitekerezo mu bakobwa bari mu myaka ya za 20s ariko badafite abakunzi, mu gukusanya ubwoko bw’inkundo eshanu abantu babona bakavuga ko zitazamara igihe kinini.
1 COUPLE Y’ABANTU BAKUNDANYE BAGIHURIRA BWA MBERE MU BIRORI
Umukobwa umwe yagize ati” iyo ukundanye n’umuntu ako kanya ukimubona, ntago urwo rwaramba”. Abantu bahita bakundana ako kanya nta n’ikintu batekerejeho abantu bakunda no kutabaha amahirwe yo kurambana. Igihe urukundo cyangwa umubano watangiriye hasi ku butaka, haba hari amahirwe menshi cyane yo gutera imbere kwarwo. Biba bikwiriye agaciro kuba urukundo waruha igerageza ryitaweho.
2 COUPLE ZIGARAGAZA KWITANAHO CYANE MU RUHAME
Umukobwa yagize ati” njya nibaza intego y’abantu bapostingana amafoto ya buri kanya berekanana mu ruhame”. Ama couple atibonamo intego yo ubwayo abantu nabo bababona nk’aho barimo kwibonekeza, maze bikagaragara nk’urwiyererutso. Ni ngombwa kwibonekeza cyangwa se kugaragaza uko umeze n’ibyishimo ufite kubwo kubona urukundo rushya, ariko kubyimenyereza bishobora gutuma birangira vuba. Niba ushaka guteza imbere urukundo rwawe, byaba byiza ubanje gusigasira intambwe runaka imbere.
3 COUPLE ZIDAFITE INARARIBONYE MU GUTERETANA
Umukobwa w’imyaka 25 yagize ati” birababaza kubona abantu barenga 60 binjira mu rukundo bwa mbere. Icyo baba bakunda kurusha ibindi muri urwo rukundo bagiyemo ni ukujya mu rukundo”. Abantu bagukikije ntago bashobora gushishikara nk’uko washishikara ugiye mu rukundo bwa mbere. Niyo waba wumva ushaka kuvuga ku mukunzi wawe byo gupfa, byaba byiza uramutse ugiye ubivugaho byibura aho uhawe ikaze ryo kubivugaho.
4 COUPLE ZAKUNDANYE KUBERA BURI WESE ICYO AKORA CYANGWA UWO ARIWE
Umukobwa w’imyaka 20 yagize ati” nk’urugero, uhagarariye amarushanwa ndetse n’umu model, bameze nk’abantu bahekanye mu mugongo kuko buri wese icyo agamije kiri mu biganza by’undi, umubano wabo ushingiye ku uruhu gusa. Rero ntago warenganya abantu kuba babifata muri ubu buryo”. Iyo urukundo urimo rugaragara nk’aho ari imibare, biragoye kwakira imigisha iturutse ku bantu bari impande yanyu. Uburyo bwonyine bwo kwereka abantu ko ibyo batekereza Atari byo, ni ukuguma muri urwo rukundo murimo igihe kirekire cyane.
5 COUPLE YAKUNDANYE BIVUYE MU KUBA BARACAGA INYUMA ABAKUNZI BABO
Umukobwa yagize ati” iyo ibibazo bimaze gukemuka, icyo bari bakurikiranyeho gihita gishira”. Abantu bakundanye biturutse ku kuba barahuye baca inyuma abakunzi babo, bigoye ko abantu babari hafi bashira amakenga ibyo bagamije. Noneho iyo byageze ku rwego rwo kubaca inyuma bakaryamana, biba binagoye ko abantu babababarira nk’uko babitekereza. Aha ikintu cyonyine cyo gukora ni ukugenda gake gake kugeza igihe abantu bazakirira urukundo murimo, nk’uko love dukesha iyi nkuru babitangaje.